Useful Links

Mental Health

Mind– mental health advice & Support


The Menopause is Affecting our Sex Life – Help & Advice | Relate – Supporting You Through Change

Menopause and Me|Official Website

Menopause Exchange for unbiased, independent information and advice (

Relationship Issues, Sexual Side Effects of Menopause | The North American Menopause Society, NAMS

Sex and Intimacy Resources – The Science of Women’s Pleasure

Videos | Betty Dodson & Carlin Ross (

videos & podcasts — Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Esther Perel | Focus On Eroticism

Psychoeducation links for  clients:

The great porn experiment | Gary Wilson | TEDxGlasgow – YouTube

Research – Your Brain On Porn

Delta FosB and Sexual Behavior – Your Brain On Porn

Urologist  talking about Porn Induced erectile Dysfunction


Brene brown on shame

Recommended Books

Loving yourself Loving Another the importance of self esteem for successful relationships by Julia Cole

Sex and Intimacy by Cate Campbell

Sex for One by Betty Dodson

How to do Relationships by Anjula Mutanda

The New Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld

Becoming Orgasmic by Julia Heiman and Jo Lopicolo

Sex and Intimacy by Cate Campbell

After the Affair by Julia Cole

Attached by Amir Levine

Victim of my thoughts (Seeing through the illusion of anxiety) by Amy Johnson

Staying Alive by Matt Haig

Living with a Black Dog by Matthew Johnstone

Recommended Counsellors operating in other areas :

The Listening Room a counselling service in Harrogate offering Individual, Relationship Counselling and Psychosexual Therapy by a Relate trained team. Counselling services for young people in Harrogate – children and young people counselling Support for men and women victims of, child sexual abuse, rape, sexual assault in North Yorkshire


British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)

College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists(COSRT)

To view my listing on the Counselling Directory